Sunday, 27 October 2013

Curing Boredom

Because the kids and I had been sick for almost two weeks with a flu that well and truly overstayed its welcome I was stir crazy from being at home 24 hours a day 7 days a week. So this weekend I made an effort to get out of the house and to get the kids out and about as well. Upset I had fallen back into my old pattern of being a hermit I feel like I definitely turned it back around.
 
On Saturday a friend of mine invited me to go to the local racecourse for the Cox Plate with her and some of her friends so despite not having the motivation to put in the effort to do my hair, makeup and find something nice to wear I convinced myself it would be good for me to get out and socialise. Lucky for me she had a very nice dress that I could wear as all of mine were quite old and didn’t really fit me. So we got ready together at her place then headed to the racecourse.
 
Me, Jacqui & Sam at the races
It was a pretty hot when you couldn’t find shade but that didn’t stop it from being an enjoyable afternoon. I hung out with new people and caught up with some friends and it was nice to get dressed up and feel girly for the afternoon, not the daggy mum I am at home. When the races were over I met my husband who had gotten the kids ready on his own at the local Tavern. I admit that I was afraid of what they would be wearing as he has a habit of dressing them in the daggiest of clothes but he had done a great job, they looked very cute, and he proved that he is quite capable of getting them ready on his own. It was a dinner to celebrate my sisters’ recent engagement and was nice for us to get out as a family and the kids loved the attention they got from everyone.    
 
My sons GIANT fairy floss
On Sunday a friend and her son invited us to go to our local markets for the morning and again we jumped at the opportunity to get out of the house. The kids had a great time eating giant fairy floss and riding the little trains. As much fun as I had at the races nothing beats seeing the smile on your kids’ faces and spending time with them, my son was so proud that he had gone on the train without an adult, “I big boy, I not scared!” he boasted when he got off. Then after weeks of feeling desperate to leave the house we all enjoyed just being home for the remainder of the day.
 
This weekend proved to me that if you feel as though you are stuck in a rut and have gotten bored with day to day life it doesn’t take much to get yourself and the kids out of the house and having a good time again. It doesn’t have to cost a fortune it can just be a walk down to your local park, but when the kids and I do get out it we are definitely a lot happier than when we spend too much time at home.

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