Tuesday, 31 December 2013

2013 Reflections

It's always good a this time of year to look back over the twelve months that have just passed and remember the things you have achieved, the lessons you've learnt and the things you have experienced both bad and good. Not only does this help you realise all you have done but can teach you lessons and bring about memories you may have missed or remind you of ones you could have forgotten.
 
Some of my proudest achievements are obvious ones such as reaching my health goal, starting this blog and beginning to write my book which has been a dream of mine since I was in primary school. I am also proud of the achievements my family have made over the year, my daughter finally taking her first steps at fourteen months and celebrating her first birthday, my son growing older by the day into a 'big boy' and going to his kindergarten orientation day and my husband and I completing even more of our landscaping.
 
 
The lessons I've learnt this year have taught me a lot about myself as an individual and how I interact with the people around me. My surgery at the beginning of the year taught me to be more patient and not to push myself further than necessary. It also taught me to look to the positives instead of focusing on the pain, although I did struggle with that lesson a lot of the time.
The realisation that in order to be good to my family I need to be good to myself was also important  because if I'm not happy how could I expect them to be?
 
My blog taught me to believe in myself and my abilities which led me to begin writing my book.
The most important lesson I learnt in 2013 was to be honest with myself about why I react a certain way or feel a certain way in different situations. It has really helped me bring things back into perspective when I was confused or frustrated.
 
 
The one thing I've had plenty of this year was experiences both bad and good. Surgery, a funeral, my daughters first steps, our good friends getting married, family holidays, weekends away with friends, my sister announcing her engagement, babies being born and conceived, camping weekends, the beginning of my own little business and our little puppy Roxy joined our family. There were tears and sadness as well as smiles and laughter but all in all I feel that my family and I made the most of what we were dealt.
 
 
With so many things to look forward to in the New Year, more weddings and babies, my sons first year of Kindergarten and a possible holiday in the Northern Territory, 2014 looks as though it will be another fun, exciting, emotional and crazy year.
 
I wish you all a very happy and fulfilling New Year and would like to thank those of you who follow and enjoy my blog. I look forward to posting even more of my adventures, ideas and inspirations in 2014.

Monday, 16 December 2013

Becoming a healthier me!


As a thin child and teenager for most of my life the word diet wasn’t even in my vocabulary I could eat whatever I wanted and however much I wanted of it. Then I hit the age of nineteen/twenty and my body decided seemingly overnight to begin putting on weight. For the first time in my life I had to watch what I ate and exercise to avoid gaining too many kilos and as it was something I wasn’t use to my weight went up and down over the years. Because I’d been a skinny girl for most of my life I felt pressure to remain lean and putting on weight would not only make me feel bad about the way I looked but also made me angry and disappointed in myself and depressed that I found it so hard to lose weight and keep it off. The cycle continued for years; I’d work out and diet which meant I’d lose weight then it didn’t take long once I was at a good weight for me to gain it all back again, sometimes even a few kilos extra.

 
When I got pregnant with my son he was breach and ultimately I had to have an emergency caesarean which meant six months of little to no exercise, then one year later I was pregnant with my daughter who also ended up being an emergency caesarean which of course meant another six months of recovery. During the next twelve months I also had two other surgeries to repair umbilical hernias I’d formed during my pregnancies and the second surgery meant yet another six months of no exercise. After having my two beautiful children and both surgeries my husband and I decided that we weren’t going to have any more babies, for me this meant it was time to get my weight under control in an effort to live a happy healthy life with my kids and be a good role model for them as well.

 
Over the years I tried calorie counting which ended up being too much work, shake diets that although I was hungry a lot of the time worked until I went back to a food diet and diet pills, some of which made me very irritable and grumpy. After my recovery from my operation I still struggled on my own but after visiting a doctor for my ongoing sinus troubles and refusing to have surgery or take anymore drugs I was finally pointed towards the help I needed when he suggested in frustration that I visit a Naturopath.
 

For the past five months, with the help of the Naturopath, I have changed my eating habits dramatically which has meant ditching flour, pasta, rice and potatoes and due to my allergies cow’s milk and some cheeses as well. It also meant avoiding sugar. If you had asked me if I ate a fairly healthy diet before I visited the Naturopath I would have said yes as I didn’t realise I consumed so much of these foods in my day to day life and the effect they were having on my body. The only thing I had already been avoiding was dairy as allergy testing a number of years ago had revealed that dairy products were something that brought on my sinus problems.
 

Talking to the Naturopath revealed to me that for the amount of activity I was doing a day, even if I was doing some exercise most days, I was eating too many carbs compared to the amount I was actually burning. It also made sense to me that our bodies weren’t made to eat and digest the processed foods we have in our pantries today especially the amount of sugar in our day to day foods. Our bodies preferred a ‘caveman’ type diet which consisted mainly of salad, vegetables, nuts, eggs and meat. The Naturopath asked me to cut the high carb foods out of my diet along with sugar and although initially it wasn’t easy, after the first two weeks my “carb and sugar cravings” subsided and I was ready to see food in a new light.
 

For me, eating had become more than just 'fuelling up', getting enough to stay healthy and making it through the day. Food was a way to socialise with friends, lift me up when I wasn’t happy and to break my boredom. Not only did I have to change my diet but I needed to completely change the way I looked at food and assess the relationship I had with it. Before my new eating plan I saw food as something I was entitled too, it was there to eat so why shouldn’t I eat it? Enjoy it? Everyone else eats the same, some people eat worse than me and I need to eat to live. I thought that I enjoyed high carb foods and take away and had a million excuses in my head which kicked in any time I had tried to change my diet in the past. Dieting made me feel as though I was being deprived of food, when in reality I was depriving my body of what it really needed which was enough fuel and nutrients to simply stay healthy.
 
 
By removing those high carb foods and sugar from my diet and increasing my intake of protein not only have I lost weight but I’ve lost the unhealthy visceral fat from around my organs that can potentially contribute to a lot of health problems. Apart from my weight loss other issues I have noticed have disappeared are; cravings (I rarely crave any type of 'bad' food or high carb food), bloating after meals or having a “fat” day and of course my sinus problems have almost disappeared. Before visiting the Naturopath I was taking a sinus tablet almost every day but now it is rare for me to need one and the ones I am taking are all natural.

 
All of these changes made me alter the way I view and consume food and it is a way of living I can’t imagine changing because of how healthy it has made me and how great I feel because of it. Sometimes it is difficult especially when you just want something quick and easy and there aren’t many fast meals that don’t include the foods I’m not supposed to be eating, but it has also forced me to plan ahead, be more adventurous and try new things. The unhealthy foods that I use to consume everyday simply don’t appeal to me anymore. Eating something that has too much sugar in it will give me headaches and high carb foods now make me feel ill and bloated which has helped me decide to leave those foods behind and proves to me they can’t be very good for my body.
 

Over the course of the last five months I have visited the Naturopath regularly so she could ensure I wasn’t having any issues and that I was on the right track and losing weight in a healthy way. She would also weigh me along with measuring my body fat, visceral fat, hydration, muscle and bone mass and keep track of my metabolic age. My first visit was a huge eye opener with a metabolic age of over forty and unhealthy levels of visceral fat but just last week when I had my appointment I finally hit my health goal. My visceral fat was well within the healthy range as was the rest of my measurements. My muscle mass was high which was good for me as it was low for a lot of my weight loss journey and my metabolic age was twenty eight which is my actual age. The sense of achievement was amazing and I feel so proud of myself for getting to this point. The thought of maintaining my health doesn’t scare me at all as I feel comfortable in my new lifestyle.

 
For me the key to weight loss appears to have been viewing food in a different light, to educate myself on what I was actually eating and realising that eating healthy doesn’t have to be complicated. If I can do this anyone can, losing weight isn’t a battle with food ultimately it’s a mind shift.

 
 


Check out this video link on the obesity epidemic and suggestions as to why it is happening:


 
 

Sunday, 8 December 2013

Craft Room Make Over - Motivation Slip

 
Once I pulled out the ‘change/redecorate an area of your house or yard’ motivation slip at the start of November I knew that it had to be my craft room. Since we moved into our house two years ago my craft room has been a mess of hoarded boxes, paper, containers and jars along with the rest of my art things such as paint, paint brushes, beads, scrapbooking accessories, clay and the list goes on. Although I managed to find things it was an unorganised mess that desperately needed some attention especially if I wanted to start doing more craft.
 
 
 
 
First thing I did was get rid of everything that didn’t belong in a craft room, it had become somewhat of a storage area for things that we couldn’t find a home for but a cupboard in our garage fixed that problem. Next problem I had was storage and desk space. Lucky for me a friend of mine was moving and offered me the cupboard she had been using as her pantry and my parents also had a desk at their house they no longer wanted so once I worked out (with the help of my husband) how on earth I was going to fit four desks, a cupboard, a tall book case and my storage drawers in a room that isn’t very big, my craft room was finally starting to take shape.
 
 
After everything had been moved around a few times and I decided I was happy with the new layout I began emptying all of my cupboards and drawers one by one organising its contents so that I knew where everything for each type of craft I did was kept. Looking on the internet for ideas helped but most of their featured craft rooms were designed for a specific craft where I have always enjoyed trying all different types so I had to adapt their ideas to suit my needs. Also, having started a little home business cutting die cuts with my Cricut Expressions machine I set myself up an area so that I could keep all of my orders and creations together complete with cutting station, shelves for creations I have made and an order book and folder of cutting sizes and shapes for different projects.
 
 
After receiving not only the machine from my aunty but also a large collection of scrapbooking papers along with the large pile I had already accumulated myself I had to come up with a way of storing them so they were easily accessible. My solution? Nappy boxes! I’d always hated throwing them away so I used two with the top flaps cut off covered in a nice wrapping paper. One was for the pile of paper and the other for the scraps after they had been used in the die cut machine. I also added another smaller box which was a frozen mixed berries box cut in half, also covered in the same wrapping paper, for the smaller off cuts so that I wouldn’t be wasting too much paper. Under my cutting station I also put an extra bin for paper scraps only so that I can recycle it and make it into paper once again.
 
 
The cupboard I had received from my friend was easily decorated using a vinyl sticker I bought from eBay which now also acts as an artwork in my room. Old play dough containers I had kept became pencil and pen holders that I sat on glass candle holders I had from my wedding almost five years ago. My collection of baby food jars helped organise some beads, scatters and even ribbon and string and I intend to paint their lids different colours and write on them what their contents are. The final piece was a large wall hanging which is a hessian material printed with keys. It was simple to make with two pieces of dowel one each for the top and bottom which I glued on with a hot glue gun. I intend to use it to put photos and inspirational quotes etc. on.
 
 
 
 
There are still a few little things I would like to do to complete my craft room a few extra shelves and a table lamp for starters. But I am happy to now have a workable and organised place to retreat and get creative. It is one of my favourite places to be, and thanks to a baby gate the kids can’t follow me inside.